Can somebody help me figure out if I have an eating disorder?

I’m about 95 pounds at the moment and am having a hard time getting motivated to really improve my eating.

Let me start out by saying that I’m happy with my body and weight in that I like the way I look. I’ve never been good at eating––for example, I can often go much of the day without eating much of anything until dinner, but I don’t feel especially hungry. I think the highest my weight has been is around 107 or something.
I guess my viewpoint on eating is that…like, I don’t like that I have to stop what I’m doing in order to eat. Like if I’m planning to go to the library for a few hours it annoys me that I’ll have to find something to eat and take time out for it. I don’t know.

Anyway, does this classify as an eating disorder? It’s not about body image or control so I don’t know if it qualifies. My mom’s getting particularly worried.


rapunzelie:

the concept of liking someone and them liking you back and you deciding to date each other literally just fucking baffles me because it has never once happened for me in my entire life

how are you all doing this

how are you people making it look so easy

how are you finding people who like you back and want to date you and then actually do it

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My Least Favorite Trope (and this post will include spoilers for The Lego Movie, Guardians of the Galaxy, The Matrix, Western Civilization, and—cod help me—Bulletproof Monk*.) is the thing where there’s an awesome, smart, wonderful, powerful female character who by all rights ought to be the Chosen One and the hero of the movie, who is tasked with taking care of some generally ineffectual male character who is, for reasons of wish fulfillment, actually the person the film focuses on. She mentors him, she teaches him, and she inevitably becomes his girlfriend… and he gets the job she wanted: he gets to be the Chosen One even though she’s obviously far more qualified. And all he has to do to get it and deserve it is Man Up and Take Responsibility.

And that’s it. Every god-damned time. The mere fact of naming the films above and naming the trope gives away the entire plot and character arc of every single movie.

Elizabeth Bear - My Least Favorite Trope (via owldee)

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rusig:

tbh skinny people bitching about all about that bass are annoying like ya it’s not the most positive song but it’s because of her basing her worth on a man’s opinion of her body not bc she possibly shamed the most desired body type that is shoved down our throats every day by all types of media lmao.

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heyclock:

i used to know a girl with a beautiful port wine birthmark and my family had a history of vitiligo both of which have become really fascinating and lovely to me

heyclock:

i used to know a girl with a beautiful port wine birthmark and my family had a history of vitiligo both of which have become really fascinating and lovely to me

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quimbycub:

willow-wanderings:

nedahoyin:

queenqueerqutie:


Martin Bauendahl

Real life vs Societal expectations

Wow..

Yeah, news flash people, boobs generally only look “perky” while in a bra. A few are super lucky and have naturally perky boobs, most don’t. And this is because, SURPRISE, boobs are intended to feed babies and it’s hard for a baby being cradled in mum’s arm to reach a nipple that’s on the other side of the boob from where its mouth is.Think of a soda fountain machine. The spouts are all pointing down, right? So you can put soda in a cup being held under the spout? If the spout was sticking straight out, it would be really hard to get a soda out of it.Babies need to be able to reach a nipple easily so they can eat. Ergo, nipples are usually lower and angled more downward on a naturally hanging boob, both so it’s easier for a baby to reach and so gravity can do its part in pulling milk toward the nipple.So there you go, outright ANATOMICAL proof that boobs are not there for the benefit of men.

Thank you for that. I never realized. Thanks.

quimbycub:

willow-wanderings:

nedahoyin:

queenqueerqutie:

Martin Bauendahl

Real life vs Societal expectations

Wow..

Yeah, news flash people, boobs generally only look “perky” while in a bra. A few are super lucky and have naturally perky boobs, most don’t. And this is because, SURPRISE, boobs are intended to feed babies and it’s hard for a baby being cradled in mum’s arm to reach a nipple that’s on the other side of the boob from where its mouth is.

Think of a soda fountain machine. The spouts are all pointing down, right? So you can put soda in a cup being held under the spout? If the spout was sticking straight out, it would be really hard to get a soda out of it.

Babies need to be able to reach a nipple easily so they can eat. Ergo, nipples are usually lower and angled more downward on a naturally hanging boob, both so it’s easier for a baby to reach and so gravity can do its part in pulling milk toward the nipple.
So there you go, outright ANATOMICAL proof that boobs are not there for the benefit of men.

Thank you for that. I never realized. Thanks.

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whatisthat-velvet:

cindimayweathersson:

I’ve been seeing so much love for her on my dash lately while she’s extremely problematic this is unacceptable.

Oh.

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dion-thesocialist:

Mumford and Sons basically.

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recently i’ve been obsessing over wanting to learn how to make video games and I’m so impatient. I really want to commit it going through with it though. 

my main character’s gonna be a supervillain’s head henchwoman and she’s gonna be fat and Hmong and beautiful and wear cat-eye glasses and get shit done

ugggghhhh i gotta be patient